With many of my projects at work wrapping up at the beginning of the 4th quarter, I’ve had competing priorities without a clue on how to decide what takes priority. So, when many of my gay brothers were spending the weekend partying it up at Southern Decadence in New Orleans or sunning themselves at Last Splash at Hippie Hollow near Austin, I found myself in the office or both Saturday and Sunday. Additionally, when I left the office on Sunday, I brought my laptop home so I could work Monday as well.
If I’d only taken better notes or paid better attention to my professors in business school, maybe I’d be running my own empire. And I would imagine that, as a business owner, I still would have worked the weekend. Running your own business is a tough job. As a child, I watched as my enterprising father run businesses simultaneously. Well, I caught sight of him occasionally; the man was busy.
In addition to doing my day-job work each day of the holiday weekend, I went to my piano lesson (it’s an effort, people, albeit an enjoyable one), I did my yard work (I’m the rare Houstonian who knows how to push a lawnmower around his own parcel of land), I bathed the dogs (you can read what a chore this is here), I cleaned the litter box (yes, I’m a servant to my animals).
If I examine the amount of time that I spent on the activities mentioned in the preceding paragraph, maybe I did have a sufficient holiday.
· My piano lesson? Typically, after practicing for an hour each day, I tend to make the same mistakes over and again at my teacher’s piano, laughing at myself as I play. But there is that moment of zen, when all falls in place, and I perfectly play a passage that had given me the devil for weeks. It surprises me, although my teacher says, matter-of-factly and with a smile, “You worked it out.” Ok, so maybe it’s not work.
· The yard work? I watched my grandfather do his own lawn up until the time that his vision prevented him from seeing well enough. I feel connected to him as I push my mower around the yard. I plug in my headphone, put some rock music on, and the whole task seems like it’s over in minutes. (But why does my iPod always offer me “Dust in the Wind” by Kansas? It’s a pretty, but disheartening song. I really need to remove it)
· Bathing the dogs? They smell so great afterwards. ‘Nuff said.
· Cleaning out the litter pan? Oddly enough, the cats act grateful. (I mean, who wouldn’t be happy if someone came in to clean your bathroom?)
But I am left wondering how Eric spent his weekend? Given the perks and privileges offered to a high-rolling politician, I’m guessing that his was not remotely like mine.